At the beginning use http://blog.junaid.site/2017/07/11/tl-wn823n-driver-in-raspberry-pi-2-b/
In the end lsusb still can provide only line:
Bus 001 Device 004: ID 2357:0109.
Do not worry, I did not make lsusb work either, but changing /etc/network/interfaces to
auto lo
auto eth0
iface lo inet loopback
iface eth0 inet dhcp
allow-hotplug wlan0
auto wlan0
iface wlan0 inet dhcp
wpa-ssid "xxx"
wpa-psk "xxx"
did the job. Results can be seen in ifconfig.
Btw to enable ssh go to Preferences -> Raspberry Pi Configuration -> Interfaces -> SSH -> Enabled
and reboot.